The History and Evolution of Boudoir Photography

June 27th, 2025

Boudoir photography has come a long way over the years. What began as a subtle, intimate art form has transformed into a powerful tool for self-expression, confidence, and empowerment. Today, boudoir photography is celebrated worldwide, but its journey to this point is filled with fascinating milestones—and a personal story close to my heart.


Where It All Began: The Roots of Boudoir Photography

The word "boudoir" originates from the French term meaning a woman’s private dressing room or bedroom. In the late 19th century, as photography became more accessible, intimate portraits began to emerge, capturing women in softer, more personal settings.

During the 1920s and 1930s, boudoir-style imagery was heavily inspired by the golden age of Hollywood glamour. Black and white portraits of silver screen icons like Jean Harlow and Marlene Dietrich featured sultry poses and dramatic lighting. These images set the foundation for what we recognize as modern boudoir photography.


Boudoir in the Mid-20th Century: Pin-Up Girls and Glamour Shots

In the 1940s and 1950s, boudoir photography evolved with the rise of pin-up culture. These playful, flirtatious images featured women in vintage lingerie and confident poses, often painted or photographed for soldiers during World War II.

By the 1980s, glamour photography took over, characterized by bold makeup, feather boas, and studio backdrops. While these photos were more commercialized, they still held a space for women to feel confident and beautiful in front of the camera.


The Digital Revolution: A Shift in Style and Accessibility

With the rise of digital photography in the early 2000s, boudoir photography experienced a renaissance. Photographers gained more control over editing and lighting, and clients had quicker access to their final images. The style became more refined, moving away from overly staged setups and focusing on genuine intimacy and self-expression.

This shift allowed photographers to experiment with different aesthetics, like the Dark and Moody style, which plays with shadows and depth, and the Light and Airy style, which emphasizes softness and brightness.


Boudoir Photography in Salt Lake City: My Story

When I started boudoir photography back in March 2007, no one in Salt Lake City, Utah was offering it. Boudoir was still a niche genre, often misunderstood or overlooked.

Back then, there weren’t many resources, guides, or mentors in the field. I had to carve my own path, learn through experience, and most importantly—listen to my clients. I quickly realized that boudoir photography wasn’t just about beautiful photos; it was about creating a space where women could feel empowered, celebrated, and confident.

Over time, I refined my style, built a community of amazing women, and watched boudoir photography grow into what it is today—a celebration of self-love, vulnerability, and empowerment.


Modern Boudoir: A Celebration of Every Woman

Today, boudoir photography is no longer a luxury reserved for the few. It’s an experience that women from all walks of life embrace. Whether celebrating a milestone, gifting photos to a partner, or simply taking time to honor themselves, boudoir has become a transformative experience for so many.

Modern boudoir is diverse, inclusive, and empowering. It’s not about conforming to a specific standard of beauty—it’s about embracing your individuality and owning your story.

At Opie Beauty and Boudoir Photography, I offer both Dark and Moody and Light and Airy styles, ensuring every client’s unique personality and vision are captured beautifully.


Why Boudoir Photography Matters Today

Boudoir isn’t just a trend—it’s a movement. In a world that constantly pressures women to look, act, or feel a certain way, boudoir photography is a safe space to break free from those expectations.

It’s about:

  • Celebrating your body, as it is right now.
  • Capturing confidence, beauty, and vulnerability in one frame.
  • Creating timeless images that tell your story.

Looking Ahead: The Future of Boudoir Photography

As boudoir continues to grow in popularity, one thing remains certain—it will always be about you. Whether it’s capturing a moment of confidence, embracing your sensuality, or simply celebrating yourself, boudoir photography will continue to empower women across generations.

At Opie Beauty and Boudoir Photography, I’m honored to be part of this journey. My mission has always been to create a space where women feel safe, beautiful, and celebrated, and I’m so excited to see how the world of boudoir continues to evolve.


Ready to Write Your Own Boudoir Story?

Your boudoir session isn’t just a photoshoot—it’s an experience, a celebration, and a reminder of your beauty and strength.

Whether you’re drawn to Dark and Moody, Light and Airy, or a blend of both styles, I’m here to guide you through every step.

Let’s create something beautiful together. Contact me today to book your session and become part of the ever-evolving story of boudoir photography.

Because you deserve this. ❤️✨

Common Fears and How to Overcome Them Before Your Boudoir Shoot

June 13th, 2025

Booking a boudoir shoot is an exciting and empowering decision, but let’s be honest—it's also one that can come with a lot of nerves. At Opie Beauty and Boudoir Photography, I’ve worked with hundreds of women who walked into the studio feeling a little unsure, but they walked out feeling confident, radiant, and so glad they took the leap.

Let’s address some of the most common fears clients have before their boudoir session and how you can overcome them.


Fear #1: "I’m Not Photogenic"

One of the most common things I hear from clients is, “I’m just not photogenic.” But here’s the truth: being photogenic isn’t about having model-like features—it’s about feeling comfortable, confident, and guided by the right photographer.

How to Overcome It:

  • Trust me! With over 15 years of experience and having photographed over 2,000 boudoir clients, I know how to pose, guide, and coach you every step of the way.
  • Remember, it’s my job to make you look and feel incredible—it’s not your job to know how to pose.

Fear #2: "I’m Not in My Ideal Shape/Size"

We all have insecurities, and it’s easy to let them hold you back. But boudoir photography isn’t about waiting for the “perfect body.” It’s about celebrating yourself right now.

How to Overcome It:

  • Boudoir is for every body—every size, every shape, every curve.
  • I use flattering lighting, expert posing, and thoughtful angles to highlight your best features and help you see yourself in a whole new light.
  • Confidence isn’t a size—it’s a feeling, and a boudoir session can help unlock it.

Fear #3: "I Don’t Know What to Wear"

Choosing outfits for your boudoir session can feel overwhelming. Should you go for lace? Silk? Casual? Sexy? The good news is—you don’t need a massive wardrobe to look incredible.

How to Overcome It:

  • Bring outfits that make you feel good. Whether it’s lingerie, a cozy sweater, or even your partner’s shirt, confidence starts with comfort.
  • I’ll guide you through outfit choices during your pre-shoot consultation, and we’ll make sure everything fits your vision.
  • Remember, it’s not about the outfit—it’s about how you feel in it.

Fear #4: "I’m Nervous About Being Vulnerable"

A boudoir session is an intimate experience, and feeling nervous about being in front of the camera is completely normal. But vulnerability can also be incredibly empowering.

How to Overcome It:

  • Know that my studio is a safe, judgment-free space where you’re celebrated for exactly who you are.
  • I’ll guide you through every pose and every detail—you’ll never be left wondering what to do.
  • Take a few deep breaths, focus on having fun, and remember: you’re in control of your experience.

Fear #5: "What If I Don’t Like My Photos?"

The fear of not liking your photos can hold many women back, but I promise—you’ll be amazed at what we create together.

How to Overcome It:

  • I’m here to make sure every image showcases your beauty, confidence, and personality.
  • Every photo you see is carefully selected and edited to highlight your best self.
  • Trust the process. So many clients are blown away when they see their final images.

Fear #6: "I Don’t Want My Photos Shared Publicly"

Your privacy is incredibly important, and sharing your images is always your choice.

How to Overcome It:

  • At Opie Beauty and Boudoir Photography, your photos are never shared without your explicit permission.
  • Many clients choose to keep their images private, and that’s completely okay.
  • If you do want to share a few images, you’ll have full control over which ones are shown.

Fear #7: "I Don’t Know How to Pose or Look Sexy"

Posing can feel awkward at first, especially if you’ve never done a professional photo shoot before. But here’s the secret: it’s my job to pose you!

How to Overcome It:

  • I’ll guide you into every pose and expression, from the tilt of your chin to the curve of your back.
  • There’s no “right” way to look sexy—confidence and comfort are the most attractive things in any photo.
  • Don’t worry about being perfect—just focus on having fun.

Fear #8: "What If I Don’t Feel Confident During the Shoot?"

Confidence isn’t something you have to bring to the session—it’s something we’ll build together.

How to Overcome It:

  • Play your favorite music before your session or even during your shoot to loosen up.
  • Take a moment to remind yourself why you’re here: to celebrate you.
  • Trust me to guide you—you’re in good hands.

Fear #9: "Is It Worth the Investment?"

A boudoir session is an investment—not just financially, but emotionally. But the confidence, empowerment, and self-love you’ll walk away with are truly priceless.

How to Overcome It:

  • Think of this as an investment in yourself. You deserve to feel celebrated, beautiful, and empowered.
  • These photos will become cherished keepsakes—a reminder of your strength and beauty.

Fear #10: "Will I Regret Doing This?"

Almost every client who’s walked through my studio doors has said the same thing: “I wish I’d done this sooner.”

How to Overcome It:

  • Focus on why you booked this session in the first place—to celebrate yourself.
  • Remind yourself that fear is temporary, but confidence lasts a lifetime.

Final Thoughts: You’ve Got This!

It’s completely normal to feel nervous before your boudoir shoot—but remember, you’re stepping into a space designed to make you feel celebrated, beautiful, and empowered. At Opie Beauty and Boudoir Photography, I’m here to guide you, cheer you on, and help you see yourself the way the world sees you: absolutely stunning.

Are you ready to face those fears and step into your power? Let’s create something extraordinary together. Contact me today to book your boudoir session—you deserve this moment. 💖✨